

Questions I feel are important to ask in a relationship that don’t involve materialism:
• Can we be honest with each other, emotionally vulnerable, raw?
• Do I feel safe, free, and open to share myself intimately and sexually with them?
• Can they be happy and fulfilled without me?
• Do they have passions, goals, drive?
• Are they devoted to a spiritual practice?
• Is there mental stimulation within our connection?
• Do they truly want what’s better for me, outside of what they can give me?
• Do we share similar values and visions in many ways (not all ways, they aren’t the same person as me)?
• Do they love Mama Earth?
• Are they willing to grow together, in the ebbs and flows of life, and be with me even when life feels heavy?
• Do we have fun together?